That Perfect Stride
Jul 24th 2010stf6992Business & Faith & Life
I’ve been walking a lot over the last few months…almost at a Forrest Gump compulsiveness…and tonight I had just under two hours to get a multi-mile walk in, spend time in the weight room, shower and pack, eat a salad at the hotel restaurant, and then rush to the airport to join a hoard of people exiting Alaska on a late Friday night.
During the walk, I hit that perfect stride…where your steps get synchronized with the music, the pace is faster than normal, the breathing stays calm though, and the sweat starts pouring out.
And then I stopped.
I had to.
My shoe lace was untied.
I had been in that perfect stride for 15 minutes or so, and I was looking forward to being in that stride for an awful lot longer.
But I stopped.
And that perfect stride did not return.
In all phases of my life, I’ve been desperately seeking that perfect stride.
Personal.
Professional.
Physical.
Spiritual.
It seems so rare when I actually find it, but when I do, it’s something special.
It’s nirvana actually.
And then a “shoe lace” always comes untied.
In my personal life, I miss a special event or do something dumb (happens a lot actually).
In my professional life, something goes wrong which takes down the entire team.
In my spiritual life, I give into that temptation and someone gets hurt.
In each case, that perfect stride and near nirvanic state takes a hit when the shoe lace comes untied.
Obviously, we each quickly tie it back and work hard to get back in stride.
Sometimes it happens fast.
Other times it’s a long and painful process.
But we eventually get back in stride.
And the smiles return.
Big time.