Life with a 14 Year Old (2)
I was so excited today – my 14 year old popped into my office and said, “Dad, let’s go for a walk.” I was skeptical at first, not knowing her motives, but it really was just an attempt to go get some exercise with her Dad. How cool is that. I asked, “where are we going to walk to?” She said, “to the Loaf & Jug and back”. Then I got suspicious. She quickly said, “I can get an ice cream or something while we’re there.”
Sure enough, we walked the long route to Loaf & Jug which was about two miles. We talked the whole way about what she wanted to get done this summer, what I wanted to get done this summer, and what both of us were thinking about for our futures. Then we got to Loaf & Jug.
At first, she tried to pick up a small container of Ben & Jerry’s ice cream. I drew the line at that one. I just couldn’t imagine walking back home with her scooping out of an ice cream container. So, we settled for this:
I must admit that I’m jealous that she can eat such high quality “snack food” and still be as thin as she is. I’m also torn as to whether I’m a bad Dad for letting her eat such food (especially during exercising) or I’m a great Dad for walking the two miles with her so she could get it. For those of you leaning on the “bad Dad” side, she did buy it herself…though I probably would have if she didn’t…she did after all ask me to go on a walk…and we did talk about things like school, and the future, and yep, even boys.
OK, so this may be nirvana.
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One Response to “Life with a 14 Year Old (2)”
tpak on 01 Jun 2008 at 9:38 pm #
Good Dad for talking with her the whole way and listening.